• Unforgiveness holds you captive in the season that you desperately want to get out of

    That’s Where I Was

    In the spirit of Easter, this week I am writing about forgiveness – our forgiveness of others. Before I continue, this post may seem linear, so be sure to check out this post for more understanding of the journey of forgiveness. I try to represent my views fully and understandably in each post, but I…

  • You've been honest, now be vulnerable

    Hitting the Share Button

    I remember walking into the Philadelphia courthouse like it was yesterday. I forgot I had pepper spray in my purse and the guard made me throw it out. I felt so silly since I had already been there a few times. This was my last set of paperwork in an arduous process, and I knew…

  • Honor yourself with permission to be right where you are at

    How is your life being Re.defined by this pandemic?

    Re.defined: a place for anyone that feels like their life isn’t what they imagined or wanted it to be. At the start of this year, as I began to develop this blog, I had no idea that today everyone around me would be living a life very different than they imagined. Our day to day…

  • I invited the Holy Spirit to guide my exploration in the heart of God for my situation

    My Theology of Leaving: Divorce From Abuse

    Divorce is such a dirty word. Fear of the word and all the stares attached to it kept me in a dark place for a long time. God never intended divorce to be part of our marriages. It isn’t His passion or desire for His sons and daughters. But one day I realized that He…